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We Are Engaged! Now What?

Congratulations! You've just said 'yes' to forever, and the excitement of your engagement is still fresh. As you revel in the joy of this significant milestone, it's only natural to wonder, "What's next?" Navigating the path from engagement to marriage involves a series of exciting steps and decisions. Here's a comprehensive guide to help you make the most of this exhilarating journey.

Reflect on Your Vision: Before diving into wedding planning, take some time as a couple to reflect on your vision for the big day. Consider the atmosphere, style, and size of the celebration you both envision. This initial discussion will lay the foundation for the decisions to come.

Set a Tentative Date: While you may not have a specific date in mind just yet, setting a tentative timeframe can help guide your planning. Consider factors such as the season, any significant dates, and the amount of time you'd like for preparation. Having a general timeframe will make the next steps more focused.

Establish a Budget: Weddings can be as extravagant or as intimate as you desire, but setting a realistic budget is crucial. Discuss your financial priorities and determine how much you are willing to allocate to different aspects of the wedding, such as venue, catering, attire, photography and videography. A clear budget will help you make informed decisions throughout the planning process.

Start Researching: Now that you have a vision and budget in mind, it's time to start researching potential venues and vendors. Browse through wedding magazines, websites, and social media platforms for inspiration. Attend bridal shows and open houses to get a feel for different options and gather information that will aid in decision-making.

Choose a Venue: Selecting the right venue is a significant decision that often influences other aspects of the wedding, such as the date, theme, and guest list. Whether you dream of a romantic garden ceremony, a rustic barn celebration, or an elegant ballroom affair, finding the perfect venue sets the tone for your special day.

Celebrate the Milestone: Take a moment to celebrate your engagement with an engagement party. Whether it's an intimate gathering with close friends and family or a larger celebration, an engagement party provides an opportunity to share your joy with those who matter most. It's also a chance to show off the ring and soak in the well-wishes.

Create a Guest List: Start drafting a preliminary guest list to get an idea of the size and scope of your celebration. This list will evolve as you make other decisions, but having a rough estimate early on will help you choose a venue that accommodates your desired guest count.

Book your Photographer and Videographer: Securing a talented photographer and videographer early on ensures that you capture every precious moment of your the wedding day. Research photographers and videographers whose style resonates with you, and schedule engagement photos to both document this time in your lives and get comfortable in front of the camera. We also recommend have a meeting with them, either over Zoom or in person. You will be spending all day with them so you want to make sure you vibe with them and that they are 'your kind of people'.

Choose a Wedding Party: Selecting your wedding party is a personal and meaningful decision. Choose friends and family members who have been a significant part of your journey and who will support you throughout the planning process. Be sure to communicate your expectations and involve them in the joy of the celebration.

Consider a Wedding Planner: If the idea of managing all the details becomes overwhelming, consider hiring a wedding planner. A professional planner can help streamline the process, offer valuable insights, and alleviate stress. From co-ordinating logistics to suggesting creative ideas, a planner can be an invaluable asset.

Stay Organised: As the planning progresses, staying organised is essential. Utilise wedding planning tools, apps, or traditional binders to keep track of contracts, timelines, and important details. This will help you stay on top of tasks and ensure that nothing falls through the cracks.

Enjoy the Journey: Amidst the excitement and planning, don't forget to enjoy the journey. This time as an engaged couple is a unique and precious chapter in your love story. Embrace the moments of laughter, the shared decisions, and the anticipation of what's to come. The journey towards marriage is just as significant as the destination.

The period between "We're engaged!" and "I do" is a whirlwind of joy and decision-making. By approaching the process with thoughtful consideration, communication, and a sense of celebration, you'll set the stage for a wedding day that reflects the essence of your love story. Cherish each step, and remember that this journey is not just about the wedding—it's about the beautiful adventure of building a life together. Congratulations on this incredible milestone, and here's to the wonderful journey ahead!

We Are One Wedding Films capture personal moments and weave them into a wedding film that you’ll always cherish.

We’re big on building and nurturing relationships. We seek to really get to know you and your families so we can create something that celebrates everything. As a family-run business we work together seamlessly, never missing a beat.

For us, this is far more than a job. It’s a major privilege that we get to capture love stories and give you the gift of a wedding film.

We don’t make cookie-cutter films that feel generic. We specialise in bespoke films that feel authentically you. We do this by really getting to know you both – as individuals and as a couple, finding out your history and the people who mean the most to you.

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